Cheating doesn’t have to be the end of your marriage no matter what other people will tell you. Cheating is a hard blow to any marriage, but it can still be mended if both of you are willing to work to make things right.
Women are taught that it is important to find a man who will respect them. They are also taught that there are few things that show a more flagrant disrespect than cheating.
So start doing nice things for each other and see how great your marital outlook becomes.
Not everyone gets a second chance. Don’t squander yours by holding on to petty differences and arguments from the past.
Can it happen?
Can the two of you really have a second chance at love even though he’s cheated on you? As long as you both understand that it really does take two people to make or break a relationship and you’re both willing to work to make it right there’s no reason you can’t. Here are a few things to keep in mind as you work towards your second chance at happiness.
While it may feel personal to you, it probably wasn’t personal for him. Affairs for men aren’t generally about emotion. They aren’t about falling in love. While the fact that he cheated may hurt you to the core; that was never his intention. Keep this in mind when you decide whether or not to go for a second chance.
Did he need more flattery?
More respect at home? Was the sex becoming a little too predictable? It could be any, all, or none of these things but you need to find out why so you can prevent it from happening in the future.
Are you willing to risk your heart again? It’s understandable that you’re going to guard your heart for a little while after he’s cheated. Are you going to be willing to risk it again when the time comes or do you feel as if you’re always going to want to hold a little something back?
You can have a second chance and get your ex back after he’s cheated. It’s going to take a little work, a little more time, and a lot of love. Following these step by step instructions: