Got no idea when it comes to picking up a woman?
The following handy tips will put you on the right path to start seeing success to getting the women dream of! If you want success with women to happen IMMEDIATELY like NOW, then here is some practical advice that when you follow it works straight away. Firstly here’s what you DON’T need to pick up women.
You DON’T need a lean muscular physique with come to bed good looks.
This fundamental error in thinking occurs with most men. Truth is that 85% of women value how a man makes them
FEEL over how he looks. So if you reckon you’re not the hottest looking guy out there, don’t sweat it. It’s not that important.
You DON’T have to be rich, spend a lot of money or drive a hot set of wheels!
Many of the guys I know who are great at picking up women spend less than $30 when they go out on dates, and more than one of them doesn’t even own a car! (And those that do don’t drive anything special!) If a woman LIKES you, you’ll find that she can be very forgiving about how much money you make or spend on her. Notice I said IF she
LIKES you! And part of picking up women is to get the girl to like you, right?
Lastly, don’t worry about being interesting.
DON’T try to be something you’re not. You don’t need a body like Hugh Jackman, put on some exotic accent or pretend to be rich and famous to get the girl.
The cold hard truth is no matter what obstacle you have or you think you have, when it comes to getting a girl to like you, having a great personality overshadows anything! At the end of the day that’s all she wants, a guy with a great personality. Having a great personality is easy when you think about it.
Stop worrying about being interesting (that’s self obsessing) and women hate it. They can smell it and then they run. No work on being INTERESTED instead. That will get you attention. She will love that someone is actually listening and she will feel special, and that’s when she will feel good about you.When you know the right way to talk to women and also the right way to listen, nothing else matters.
Practice builds confidence and makes you better.
When you first try these new tactics, go out often and talk to all the women you can. No need to go to night clubs and high pressure dating environments. You can go anywhere to meet women.
No matter where you choose to go, you need to set aside some time every day to go out and pick up women – you’ll get better the more often you do it! And the more experience you have, the quicker you’ll be able to MASTER the art of picking up women!
Make sure you look and smell your best.
You’re going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this valuable experience with women. (Remember I didn’t say you had to be “good looking.” I said you need to “look good.” There’s a difference here. You may not have any say about what you look like, but you have complete control over your appearance – what you wear, how your hair looks, how you smell, etc.)
Do the best you can with what you have. Get a fashion conscious female friend to help if you’re totally lost. Looking good gives you confidence which makes picking up women easier.
If you do want to spend a little money to stand out from the crowd, invest in some good cologne. Don’t go for the cheap stuff here. A classy scent is a turn on and a cheap one definitely a turn off. If you can’t afford it, no problem stick to soap and deodorant.
Steps 1 through 4 to pick up.
There’s a simple 4 step structure to every pickup that you can repeat time and time again.
- Find a woman
- Make the first contact
- Gain Rapport
- Work towards Attraction
These four simple steps are all you need! You’ll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you’ll easily be able to build attraction with them too. So your job now is to get better at each step.
Go for it!
Once too nervous to talk to women, the author wrote the Deluxe Course on The Art of Approaching to reveal the methods he learned by trial and error to you.